Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Nesting!

I've hit the Third Trimester-- and I am nesting in a major sort of way.

I am ready to gut the entire house. Seriously.

But I started instead with Moses' room this morning. Because there would have been NO ROOM for all of his new stuff if we hadn't reorganized something.

Fortunately, I was able to pull K (and Moses) into my nesting frenzy. Here was the result:


I was so crazy I even had K move all the furniture out to vacuum:


Wherever Daddy's vacuum went, there went Moses' vacuum also:


Moses even carried laundry to his room for folding!


So things have been reorganized, rearranged, and settled. Somewhat. You never know when I might change my mind. :) BUT, Moses seems to like the new set-up, so that is a relief:






Monday, December 29, 2008

28 weeks!

So I have already established that I am big.

Really big.

Bigger even than I was with Moses, and I was big with him.

So big that I continually have people asking whether the doctor has my due date correct. If I were bold enough, I would start replying, "Well actually, we use natural family planning. Would you like to see the chart?"

I.e., there is no doubt of my due date.

Here I was at 28 weeks yesterday (keep in mind this was Day 6 of the flu, so I am not looking so great):


So you can imagine my surprise today, at my prenatal appointment, when the doctor measured me and I measured at-- get this-- 27 weeks. What? How can that be? Everyone thinks I am SO HUGE!

So I guess instead of being a smarty pants about NFP and charts, I can now counter, "Actually, I'm not even as big as I am supposed to be!" :)

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Where did Christmas go? Did I miss it?

Short answer: I slept through it.

Although not entirely. Remember that Moses woke up at 3:30 on Tuesday morning, throwing up profusely? By 9:00 that morning I was sick. That was the 23rd. By 4:00 am on the 24th, I felt sure I was going to be admitted to the hospital that day (since K had to rescue me before I passed out in the bathroom). And since I wasn't sleeping anyway, I worried the rest of the night away wondering what in the world we would do with Moses if I was in the hospital.

But two calls from my doctor (and a whole lot of gatorade) later, I was feeling much better. At least, "better" enough to watch Moses open his presents from us on Christmas Eve night, after he and K got home from the church service (which I, of course, missed). He pretty much LOVED his presents, and we loved giving them to him!







By Christmas morning, I felt much better, and was at least able to enjoy Moses' joy at seeing what St. Nick left for him:





In fact, I felt so much better that I thought I should get up and around, and make some Christmas snacks (my parents were coming later in the day, since sickness totally kept us from celebrating Christmas with my family). Then I played with Moses. And my mom made Christmas dinner, so I ate it.

Stupid, stupid, stupid.

By 4:00 am on the 26th (what is it about 4 in the morning with me?), I was in severe pain again. Not a good thing-- it's hard to tell pain from sickness from pain from contractions!

So, I slept most of the day on the 26th as well.

And even though I feel SO MUCH better today, I will not make the mistake of thinking I am better and eating. I think Campbell's stock went up this week due to the amount of chicken noodle soup I've had....

But I must say, in spite of it all, I am blessed. I have a wonderful husband who has taken care of me AND Moses. I have a wonderful little boy who makes sure I am getting enough liquids (even if that means waking me up to hand me my gatorade....). AND, I realized the other day that, in 31 Christmases, this is the first time anyone in my family has ever been sick over Christmas. That's a pretty good record.

Oh- and one more blessing. It sure beats the whopping cough (and subsequent broken rib from coughing) that I had over Christmas break 3 years ago, when I was pregnant with Moses....

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

And the festivities have... ended???

Moses has been throwing up nearly non-stop since 3:30 this morning.

Poor little guy. (And poor K-- I've been having contraction-like cramping again, so I am totally out of commission-- and now K has TWO patients to take care of!)

Monday, December 22, 2008

The festivities have begun!

This post is going to be picture-heavy-- since Thursday morning, we've had 1) a pre-school Christmas party, 2) a family Christmas celebration with the Smith clan, and 3) a family wedding. All were fun, and Moses was a trooper for all of them!

It started Thursday morning with his preschool Christmas party (at which, I might add, he received Melissa&Doug waterpaints in the gift exchange-- the PERFECT gift for this little guy!). Here he is stringing beads on the candy-cane craft:


AND, here he is getting ready for a class picture:


He LOVES this little girl (and, from what I can tell, the admiration is returned...) and calls her Abby. The thing is, that's NOT her name...

Right after school, we left for central Illinois for a Christmas party with K's family. Thankfully, we avoided the ice storm that hit that night!

Here is Moses having fun with cousins, and checking out his cool new toys:




The poor little guy still doesn't quite "get" the gift idea. He wanted to leave his presents wrapped, and when Daddy started to unwrap them for him, Moses freaked out just a little and tried to put the paper back on.

And finally, Saturday was what could be one of the most fun wedding receptions I have ever been to. Not only did we get to see a TON of family and friends that we see only rarely anymore, but we also got to see.... Santa! I mean really, what Christmas wedding reception could be complete without a visit from the big red guy, bringing gift bags to all of the children?

K & me:


K & Moses:


Moses & me:


Moses was apparently a big hit with the ladies all weekend:



I have NO idea who that girl was (perhaps she left a slipper behind?). But when she ran off to do something else, Moses went for her older sister (he just walked right up and asked her to dance!):

Moses is still terrified of Santa (all I could get was this blurry pic), but he sure did enjoy the treats that Santa brought!

I would be remiss if I did not add that, after eating only sugar cookies, cucumbers, and suckers all night, Moses later threw up all over PaPa. But he was fine after that. Although it was a little gross picking cucumber seeds off of Moses' clothes...

Phew. I am exhausted just looking at all that we did-- and Christmas isn't even here yet! We still have a Christmas celebration with my family, the Christmas Eve service at our church, and Christmas Eve/Morning with our family of three. And I still need to bake more goodies, or Santa will not have much to choose from!

BUT, as of this afternoon, we are OFF work-- and are greatly looking forward to spending time with Moses!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

The Moses Show

When we're at home, Moses never stops "performing." And since he rarely does this in front of anyone else (his Christmas program was a rare exception), I thought I needed to post a few videos of the performance he gave this afternoon.

His song of choice lately has been "I've Been Workin' on the Railroad." He plays the air banjo quite well:


We had a brief intermission for a different song. Notice the hip action here:


And then, back to "I've Been Workin' on the Railroad." But this time, he is the lead singer:


I have several more of these videos. Every time I put the camera down, he insisted on "Pictures! Pictures!" But most of the time I just pretended to record. :)

Monday, December 15, 2008

He's SO cute

That's all I can really think of to title this. Moses had his FIRST EVER Christmas program tonight, and we were SO proud! He did so well! In fact, in the first song ("Jingle Bells"), he was really the only child singing. And I'm not being biased. We have it on video! (albeit on the other camera, and I have no idea how to get those videos on my computer-- but believe me, he SANG!)

He walked in like a big boy:


Here he is saying "Daddy!" when he saw K in the aisle:


SO excited to have his jingle bells:


"Hey!" (you know, as in "Jingle Bells"):


(ahem-- notice which child was REALLY into it? :) But seriously, I do think that being in church every Sunday, seeing his mommy and daddy on stage every Sunday, and getting to play with the microphones at church DOES help a child get over any "stage fright"...)

More action shots:




And just a little sample of the music:


That high voice on the word "hat"? Yep, that's my son.

Afterward, we went home for some of these:


He is SO cute!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Then & Now

So much has changed in the last year, and yet so much has stayed the same.

Christmas 2007:


Christmas 2008:



That poor Santa. He was really nice, but he wasn't really sure what to do.

And wasn't it nice that Santa and I color coordinated? Actually, I had a feeling that one of us might end up in the picture, and I figured it might as well be me-- so this is doubling as ZuZu's first pic with Santa. :)

After we did a little shopping (and Moses was an angel throughout!), we took Moses to McDonald's (the one across town, to avoid the playground) and then to Starbucks for a cookie.




Do you think he has been through the Starbucks routine too often, when he rejects a chocolate chip cookie becuase he knows he is supposed to get an M&M cookie???

Friday, December 12, 2008

O Christmas Tree

Like we did last year, K and I put up and decorated the Christmas tree after Moses was in bed (for quite a while actually-- because we have so much going on right now, we weren't even decorating it until 1:00 this morning....).
I am SO pleased with our new tree! I really dragged my feet on getting an artificial tree, but this one did not disappoint. I can sit next to it and not tell it is artificial (except it does lack that good Christmas tree smell).


Moses was so cute this morning. Here was his initial reaction:

Then he tried to eat the apple:

Then he had to run back and get a look from a distance:


And of course, the butterfly on the tree immediately became "Hermie":


We had one more surprise for him this morning. He hasn't been eating very well at breakfast-- I think he is tired of Cheerios and oatmeal breakfast bars/cookies. So we did what any good parents would do-- we bought powdered sugar doughtnuts. And let him eat them on the couch.

Ah, life is good.

But I had been under the impression that artificial trees meant you no longer had the risk of bringing wildlife into the house with you. I guess I was wrong.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

We need a Christmas Miracle

I've mentioned before (although months ago) that in early 2007 we bought a restored 100-year-old home. It was in excellent, solid condition (the former owner was a professional electrician- you should see our electric box!). BUT-- unbeknownst to us, there was a "bachelor colony" of bats in the attic, which is accessible from the second floor by four doors (two in each bedroom). Here are the rooms we are talking about:








My office is currently in one of the two bedrooms, and we are using the two main floor bedrooms. I "discovered" the bats one night when I was working late, and heard something flapping, "squeaking" (there really is no way to explain the high-pitched noise of a bat), and hitting the door attic door. Generally, people didn't believe me at first (other than K and my parents) that we had bats in the attic-- but I knew it was a bat because we-- ahem-- used to play with the wild bats in our neighborhood when I was little (that is another story-- suffice it to say it was something we learned from our dad).

But lo and behold, the "evidence" soon started appearing, and we contracted with a "bat expert" to "exclude" the bats. It is illegal to kill or physically remove bats in Illinois and most states. Besides, you can remove the bats all you want—but if you don’t find where they are getting in, it is to no avail. To shorten this a bit, the bat expert did most of the job, but not sufficiently, and he stopped returning our calls—despite the “warranty” we paid for. We still had bats, and we were out the money. (The lawyer in me REALLY wanted to file a legal claim against him, but the mother in me decided it wasn't worth my time and effort).

In the meantime, we and the pediatrician had suspicions that a bat MAY have been in Moses' room one night. When a bat is found in a child's room, it is considered immediate "bat exposure," and rabies shots are ordered. Since we didn't know for sure, the decision was up to us-- but the pediatrician, who I went to as a child and who is not an "alarmist" by any means, highly recommended it. SO, at the age of 1, Moses started rabies vaccinations. As you can imagine, he has been absolutely terrified of doctors ever since.

Since then, we have never actually seen a bat in our living area. But we have HEARD bats in the walls in our living area. But thank goodness for living in a farm community. After church on Sunday, some men came over and helped Kurt inspect the entire house, inside and out. They did find more bats in the attic, and a hole outside where the bats were getting in. They sealed the hole, and we didn't hear bats (or find any droppings) for months.

We thought we were in the clear. K and I had even recently decided to hire a contractor to 1) remove all of the false ceilings in the attic and clean out the bat guano/urine (which a doctor has indicated may be causing some of my health problems), as well as any dead bats; 2) put up dry wall; and 3) install blow-in foam insulation.

That was until Tuesday morning. I was in my office working, when the squealing started. It was like nothing I had ever heard before. Multiple bats were calling to each other, or something. Then there was a scuffle and more squealing. K came up and confirmed, YES, it was definitely bats (as opposed to mice). It was TOTALLY GROSS.

And depressing. I can’t even describe the oppression we have lived with over the last two years. Every time I hear a squeak, I think, “Is that a bat?!” K inspects Moses’ room every night—and I mean INSPECTS—to make sure there are no bats. He checks the windows, the curtains, under furniture, etc. We haven’t been able to use the upstairs or the attic spaces (with the exception of my office, because I am usually only up there during bat sleeping hours), and we never let Moses up there because he may open a door and let bats into the living area.

I don’t think I have ever felt more trapped in my life. We can’t get rid of the bats. We can’t hire an exterminator to kill the bats. We can’t sell our house, because 1) WE would have the integrity to disclose the bat situation, 2) no one is buying right now, anyway, and 3) there really is nothing in our price range to buy right now. We can’t sue the former owners, because 1) we can’t prove they knew about the bats, 2) how would that look for a new pastor in the community to sue a long and upstanding member of the community?, and 3) the former owner is incredibly ill. We can’t get the “bat expert” to come back because he stopped returning phone calls a year ago. And there is no one else in the area that specializes in bat exclusion.

So we need a MIRACLE. I don’t want my babies in a house with bats. I don’t want to bring my baby girl home to a place where I can’t let her sleep in a room by herself because there might be bats (Moses was at least 18 months before we felt comfortable letting him sleep in a room by himself). I don’t want to live in fear. And the guilt is terrible-- I put my baby boy in a room where a bat may have been. I put my baby boy in a position where he had to get rabies shots. I put my baby boy in a position where he had to get more vaccinations than the average child-- and every time I hear a report that vaccines cause autism, I want to throw up.

So, yesterday was a very dreary day in our house. I think I cried all afternoon. But Moses was such a little helper. Always there to give a hug and help his Mommy. He followed me around from room to room, trying to make his Mommy smile. It was as if he was trying to say, "See, Mommy? I'm okay! Really!"

Today has been a better day. My parents located a pest control agency that specializes in bats in their area—and they have agreed (thank the Lord—and my parents!!!) to go outside of their service area to inspect our house. They are an established business (almost 2 decades) and offer a 2-year warranty, with multiple visits included in the services.

So part of the miracle may be in place. We need these people to find the problem (my biggest fear is that they won’t be able to find where the bats are getting in), fix the problem, and offer us solutions on how to prevent it in the future. We need advice on whether or not to go ahead with our attic plans (ripping down the ceiling and cleaning it out), and whether or not that would discourage future bat roosting. We need peace of mind.

Sorry for the diatribe. I needed to get all of this out, and there is no better place than a blog, right? I know there are people in much worse positions in life right now—and I am not trying to demean that in anyway. I know we are blessed in SO MANY ways. But if you think about it, please pray for us!

Monday, December 8, 2008

And just in case you are wondering...

I gained 60 pounds with Moses, and lost 50 by the time he was 7 months old:



So far, I have only gained 25 pounds with ZuZu (although, I started out a little heavier this time). I am counting on losing all of that weight again!

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Should I be offended, or amused?

This afternoon Moses was looking through his letter flashcards-- 26 capital letters, and 26 small letters. He was saying his favorite ones out loud and laying them all out on the floor. When he neared the bottom of the pile, he decided to share one. He came to the following card, and proudly proclaimed, "Mommy's!":



I am choosing to be amused.

But I certainly feel like a whale. And I move about as fast as one out of water. Here I am at 25 weeks now...



Just as a comparison, here I was at almost exactly the time with Moses:



Ya, I am pretty sure that shirt won't even button at this point.

A couple of weeks ago, one of the men at church asked me, "SO, are we going to get to meet this little girl before Christmas?" I said, "I'm not due until MARCH! I certainly hope not!"

And then there was that stranger's "Holy Tamoley" comment last weekend.

I don't know how many times I've been asked by people, with concern in their voice, "So WHEN are are due?"-- and it is almost always followed by, "And you are sure it's not twins?" And those more medically-minded ask, "Is it possible that you have gestational diabetes?"

To which I generally explain 1) that I've had 3 ultrasounds, and there is only one baby; 2) that I have very big babies-- Moses was 9 lbs 7 oz and was a week early; 3) that the doctor has told me that this one will more likely than not be bigger; 4) that the doctor has said he will do everything in his power to help this baby come early; and 5) that this doctor is tracking my health very closely, and is doing multiple glucose screenings-- and so far, no diabetes.

But seriously, I am starting to get a complex...